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How Technology Can Be a Toxic Relationship

Written By Michael Ferrara

Created on 2022-11-08 20:55

Published on 2022-11-10 13:08

Love is a battlefield, right? Well, maybe that depends on your relationship with technology. If you let it take over your life, tech can be toxic. However, if you use technology as a constructive tool in healthy relationships and foster an environment that’s conducive to love, the results are much more positive. There’s no denying the impact of technology on our dating lives. Apps like Tinder and Bumble have forever changed how we meet potential partners and find love online. But at what cost? While many are happily finding partners through these services — or so we hope — there’s also been increased instances of cyber-stalking and catfishing due to the lack of real-life interaction and verification required in these digital spaces. Catfishing is the process of luring someone into a relationship by means of a fictional online persona.

Stalking and Catfishing

In addition to the obvious safety concerns, many relationships have also become unhealthy because there’s been no real-life interaction. With platforms like Tinder and Bumble, you don’t have to put yourself out there in the same way you would if you were meeting people in a bar or at a party. This means that people are much less nervous about approaching others. There’s also been a dramatic decrease in the amount of communication that takes place in these relationships. While you might want to dive right into a sexual or romantic relationship, it’s always good to take things slow. Texting, calling, and using apps like FaceTime or Skype are great ways to build a relationship without putting yourself at risk.

Toxic Relationships and Social Media

While technology is a great tool for fostering healthy relationships, it can also be helpful when you’re trying to cut ties with someone who’s become toxic in your life. You might want to break up with a partner who’s become obsessive, or you could be dealing with someone who’s obsessively stalking your social media feeds. In either situation, unfriending or blocking the person on social media is a great way to cut ties. You might have to block or unfriend people on your friends’ list as well. If you know someone who is struggling with a relationship (romantic or otherwise) with technology, it’s great to step in and offer support. If you’re the one struggling with an unhealthy relationship with technology, reach out to someone you trust. Their support is crucial to getting yourself back on track.

The Good News: Healthy Relationships and Technology

While unhealthy relationships with technology are on the rise, there’s also been an increase in healthy relationships with tech as well. People are using apps like Google Calendar and scheduling dates with dates or using apps like Siri or Alexa to avoid awkward silences on dates. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are great for finding love, but you should be wary of the potential for addiction. While it’s fun to swipe, it’s important to be careful not to let technology get in the way of meeting real people.

How to Have a Healthy Relationship with Technology

If you’re worried that your relationship with technology is getting out of hand, there are a few signs that you need to change your ways. If you find yourself:

It’s time to reevaluate your relationship with technology. To have a healthy relationship with technology, it’s important to be cognizant of how much time you’re spending on these platforms and apps. While it’s okay to spend an hour catching up on your favorite blogs now and again, you shouldn’t let them consume your life.

Take care of yourself.

If you’ve realized that you’re in a potentially unhealthy relationship with technology, the first step is to take care of yourself. If you’re worried that you might be addicted to technology, take a couple of days off. This can be hard if you have a job where you’re required to use your phone or computer. However, you can rest assured knowing that plenty of famous people have taken tech holidays in the past. Mark Zuckerberg, Sheryl Sandberg, and Arianna Huffington all take regular breaks from technology. In November 2022, Hilary Duff took a break from it as well and addressed her absence from Instagram. On August 14, 2022, Tom Holland revealed in a 3-minute video that he was taking a break from social media for his mental health.

Set realistic expectations.

When you’re dating, it’s important to set realistic expectations for how technology will be used. For instance, you might want to set a rule that you won’t be meeting people for a few weeks after you start dating someone online. This gives you time to assess the relationship and see if it’s really worth pursuing. It’s also important to set boundaries with your partner. If they’re expecting you to constantly be on your phone, you might want to show them that you value your time away from technology.

Don’t let technology become an obsession.

If you’ve been overindulging in technology and you’re worried that it’s become an obsession, it’s important to seek help. Technology-based addictions are real, and they can be difficult to overcome without the help of a professional. Seeking help for a technology-based addiction is a great way to stop your negative relationship with technology before it gets out of hand. It can help you to build new habits that are conducive to a healthy relationship with technology.

And finally…

Technology is a great tool to help you meet new people and find love. However, it’s important to remember that there’s no substitution for good old-fashioned face-to-face communication. Dating apps like Tinder and Bumble make it easy to swipe through thousands of potential partners, but it’s important to remember that not all of them are worth your time.

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